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Question: What do you do when you are in love with someone & was engaged to marry, but they’re baby mama wants to use the child to get him back. She don't want him, but she don't want nobody else to have him?
Answer: Honestly give him an ultimatum and ask him how important you are to him and tell him that YOU are unwilling to share him and that if he loves you, he wouldn’t want you to.
if you WERE engaged to him, there's nothing to do, but lick your wounds & move on. whatever you HAD wasn't enough for him to stay, so that tells me, at least for him, it wasn't love. if he's simple enough to be swayed by the mother of his child (i hate the term "baby mama"), then you need to wait for a real man to enter your life who is capable of being a man in all areas of his life. whether his ex wants him or not, unlike you, she has him. stop crying over spilled milk and worrying behind someone who didn't/doesn't want to be with you enough to leave her... again. take a hint, my sista, and learn to love yourself as much as you claim to love this man. you'll find that certain things will become unacceptable. i pray you find peace in this situation.
ReplyDeleteIt doesn't sound like he wants either. Deuces dude!
ReplyDeleteLadies, I feel the same way...and this is the advice I gave her. Now it's up to her to love herself enough to let him go.
ReplyDeleteToday this scenario is very common. This is a new age and the social rules for dating are changing at warp speed. What I see in relationships is that good men are so scarce that women will take almost anything that falls from a tree. Women don’t like being unattached. It’s our nature, so we tolerate being mistreated by men.
ReplyDeleteVery true Empress!
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